In case you’ve been playing along at home, I’ve decided that I’m going to be a writer. Like, a real writer. One who gets paid to write. And in that vein, I started this blog to pour out everything in my little mind that relates to writing. Some days it will be about my current projects and other days it will just be an attempt to create, in whatever direction that takes. Today might be one of those days.
There are times that we just get stuck in the details and creating something new is a challenge that might seem insurmountable. Today, for instance, was a BUSY day. I always start it off with the kid, the dogs, the commute, worrrrrrrkkkkkk, then a reverse commute, daycare, the kid, the dogs, food, bed time for said kid, then finally, quiet. At that point, I’ve poured everything out, or most of everything, and I’m running on fumes. At that point I just don’t have much in me to create with. Sometimes a glass of wine is pretty good inspiration. Other times I just close the computer and take my tail to bed because I’m just done. Like dinner.
But all of that is okay. It’s okay to push through sometimes because that can be where the magic happens. And it’s also okay to just go to bed and give yourself a break. I was talking with a friend today about taking some time off from the day job and getting some work done. He actually suggested that I sit down and binge watch Netflix. I had to laugh because that is always the last thing on my list. But it is also a great reset button. It’s okay to detach from the schedules and goals and timelines (as long as you’re not missing a deadline), and just give yourself a rest. You deserve it. You do so much every day that a break is needed.
I started all of this with the daily word inspiration, Disappear, and I was going to talk about how it’s necessary to just disappear from time to time. By that, I mean from the noise. Take a step back from social media, from the everyday nonsense, and give yourself that needed break. You need to fuel yourself as much as you fuel the rest of the world. If that means disappearing, then so be it. Go off into the mountains for a weekend. Unplug. Go hide out at your best friends for a few days. Whatever it takes to get back to you. Laugh. Be silly. And come back renewed and reinvigorated.
You’ll be more effective and productive. You will have a renewed focus and maybe some new ideas. You never know. Your next novel might be waiting for you in the middle of a campsite.