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Beating the Clock

I almost missed it. I almost finished up my day without doing the post I had scheduled. Almost. But I didn’t. Yes, I’m tired. It was the last day of work before I have an extended time off, a stay-cation, if you will. But I was also dealing with the big kid’s car insurance and arranging a plumber. Long story. And dogs and traffic and on and on…. Then the normal routing – get the kid to bed and work. That all went well. Swimmingly. No complaints. But I ran out of words just before the end of the last review and I had to force my way through. Never good. If you do that, be sure to re-read it 3 times. No less. Because you have to see the actual mistakes.

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Made it just before 12 – technically, it’s still Friday!

Anyway, all that is done and I was gonna just go lay down but nope. I have committed to this blog and that’s what I’m gonna do. Write. At this point it’s just stream of conscious but there was a word of the day if you’d like to discuss: Archaic. And the funny thing is, my reminder to do this, is fairly archaic. I write on an actual paper planner. I use that as my reminder. It has my deadlines, my assignments, I note when I complete projects on there, and it has my commitments (hello WordPress).

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A lot of nights, this is me. Anyone else? It’s just so comfy!!

So yeah, maybe I’m not the queen of technological advancements. I haven’t programmed my phone to remind me when things are due and when I should be doing something. The truth is, that requires actual setup and messing with my phone even more than I already do. And I’m just too lazy for that. I’d rather just scribble it down and keep it moving. If that makes me archaic, I’m okay with that. It’s kind of a cool word.

Along those same lines, I’m committing more and more. My business is amping up and it is amazing. However, I’m not finding any more time in my day. Do you happen to know how to go about that? I’m not convinced that digital reminders will save me time, so that one’s out. Any other suggestions? I’d love to hear them. Because I need to add some house projects into that schedule, too, and maybe some TV time because I’m told that I’m missing quite a few good shows on Netflix/Hulu/Amazon/etcetera…

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For some reason, ours is always on Kids Netflix… hmmm…

But, for now, I’m content to keep my planner going, carrying it with me like a schoolgirl. I don’t mind. It’s a quick snapshot and I don’t have to remember passwords or find apps. That’s what happens when you’re lazy. You go old school. I’d love to hear your ideas – please share!!

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One Thing Leads to Another

Do you ever think you have a plan and then something comes around and you shoot off in a completely different direction? No? Liar.

I’m convinced that every single person on this planet has something in mind but it hasn’t quite worked out the way they planned. Maybe taking a slight detour or maybe a whole ‘nother direction entirely. That’s the story of my life. I think I know what I’m doing. I see the trajectory I’m on, and then out of nowhere, BAM! I’m writing a story about my life and sharing it with the world. Not unwelcome, just unexpected.

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Which way to go???

I’ve tried a few different things. Not super different, but enough to know that I’ve definitely taken a different road this time around. Those roads have twisted and turned and taken me through completely different worlds. And I don’t regret any of them. They’ve been great. I’ve learned a LOT. Some of it I thought I knew but apparently it needed some reinforcing. But it’s okay. Those lovely twists and turns are worth it in the end. They made me who I am.

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What sweet twists and turns…

I’m happy with that person. I love that I work hard on my family, my writing, and everything else in my life. I love that I still try to think outside the box and make things happen. I firmly believe that things will work out for the better, in the way they are supposed to – whether that’s the way we have planned or not.

That’s where I am today. It started with the word search books, then the memoire, and now I’m contracting out to write blogs and web content and product descriptions. I’m editing and reviewing. It’s a funny twist but I absolutely love this road. The viewpoints are amazing and I can stop the car and breathe whenever I’m ready to do so.

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If only I were this organized when I write…

I hope you’re finding your passion. And that it’s filling you with a sense of purpose, a drive that you can’t resist. I’m typing this very late at night because I just finished a project but I’m still wide awake because I’m hyped up. I just wrote a 6,000 page review for a company as a part of an ongoing project. All I can say is, “Wow.”

This life is good. Put your all into it and do whatever it is that you love to do. And share it with me!  I’d love to hear where you are on this never-ending road trip.

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Words are our Friends

In case you’ve been playing along at home, I’ve decided that I’m going to be a writer. Like, a real writer. One who gets paid to write. And in that vein, I started this blog to pour out everything in my little mind that relates to writing. Some days it will be about my current projects and other days it will just be an attempt to create, in whatever direction that takes. Today might be one of those days.

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I kinda want this old school typewriter. But I’m worried I’d knock over my entire manuscript and cry because I forgot to number the pages. Nevermind.

There are times that we just get stuck in the details and creating something new is a challenge that might seem insurmountable. Today, for instance, was a BUSY day. I always start it off with the kid, the dogs, the commute, worrrrrrrkkkkkk, then a reverse commute, daycare, the kid, the dogs, food, bed time for said kid, then finally, quiet. At that point, I’ve poured everything out, or most of everything, and I’m running on fumes. At that point I just don’t have much in me to create with. Sometimes a glass of wine is pretty good inspiration. Other times I just close the computer and take my tail to bed because I’m just done. Like dinner.

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Ahhhhh….. Sleep….

But all of that is okay. It’s okay to push through sometimes because that can be where the magic happens. And it’s also okay to just go to bed and give yourself a break. I was talking with a friend today about taking some time off from the day job and getting some work done. He actually suggested that I sit down and binge watch Netflix. I had to laugh because that is always the last thing on my list. But it is also a great reset button. It’s okay to detach from the schedules and goals and timelines (as long as you’re not missing a deadline), and just give yourself a rest. You deserve it. You do so much every day that a break is needed.

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It looks amazing but I’m sure my mind would be focused on bugs and what could be possibly crawling on me. Nope.

I started all of this with the daily word inspiration, Disappear, and I was going to talk about how it’s necessary to just disappear from time to time. By that, I mean from the noise. Take a step back from social media, from the everyday nonsense, and give yourself that needed break. You need to fuel yourself as much as you fuel the rest of the world. If that means disappearing, then so be it. Go off into the mountains for a weekend. Unplug. Go hide out at your best friends for a few days. Whatever it takes to get back to you. Laugh. Be silly. And come back renewed and reinvigorated.

You’ll be more effective and productive. You will have a renewed focus and maybe some new ideas. You never know. Your next novel might be waiting for you in the middle of a campsite.

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Why not now? Maybe later?

I’ve already told you how much of a procrastinator I am. So, why am I even talking about this again, you wonder… Because it’s a huge problem! So many people I know get caught up with a series on TV/Netflix/Hulu and don’t get off the couch for a few hours. Hours. That precious time when you’re not required to be anywhere or do anything. Nobody is watching the clock, looking for you to show up. Yes, I know a good binge is important from time to time but that’s just it – once in a while, not every day!

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If this is what you’re watching, I’m just gonna assume you life in a nightmare. Is it talking to you??

I found a FANTASTIC article today about how to avoid procrastinating as an author. And I’m so motivated! I even bought a planner so I can old-school schedule stuff. Don’t judge me. I’m a visual person. If I can’t picture it, did it really happen? But that got me onto a whole anti-procrastination search. Yes, I’m also a huge tech  nerd. Love to find answers in seconds…

Tools! There are actual tools to help get past procrastinating and reopening that notebook or laptop or whatever your weapon of choice may be. How awesome is that? People have actually thought through this and have put together lists and helpful hints. Were you aware of this? I don’t think you were since you’re on season 6 of Archer and you just started watching it yesterday.

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I wish I had tools this organized!!

I actually go in spurts. I have days when I can get a blog post done, edit an article, do research for another one, and even spend quality time with the family. How? I have no idea. But I do know that it doesn’t include Archer. Or television at all. For some reason that is such a huge time-suck for me. If I actually sit down and get interested, all plans are out the door. OR, I bring the laptop into the living room and half watch and half write. No bueno. That is not a good combination for me. I don’t do well with distraction and my writing suffers.

But I do love the idea of giving myself a timer or a deadline for the day. I’ve talked about a 2 hour a day commitment. Yep, that’s my goal, to write for 2 hours a day, or work on my business somehow for that time period. Today, I’ve put in about 3 hours. But others will be 6 or zero. Who knows. That’s the beauty of this life. I can be flexible and meet my own needs and desires. It’s absolutely lovely. But I have to be organized too.

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Gotta have that balance in life!

If I don’t have things written out or emailed to me regularly, something will certainly fall through the cracks and that is also no bueno. That’s not me. I’m a control freak when it comes to my work and my creative outlets. Ask anyone who has ever worked with me. I’m a team-player but I need to make sure it’s getting done. That’s just how I’m wired.

So, tell me, how do you get past your distractions? Do you see them for what they are or do you just roll with them? I’m curious! I love finding new ways to be efficient and productive but still maintain balance. Because, who doesn’t like to goof off??  Tell be in the comments!

 

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Stay Humble, But Brag

I can’t stand writing about my accomplishments. Don’t get me wrong. I absolutely love to write and talk about my books and I love to dig into them and relate them to other peoples’ experiences because, let’s just agree on this, life is pretty universal and there is very little in this world that another person hasn’t already experienced. But that’s why we reach out. We want to connect. We want to relate. We want to know that we aren’t alone on this gigantic, floating rock, hurting through space. Right?

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Your bio should have a quick shot of fireworks that makes the reader stop and say, “hey, I like this person”…

That’s the fun part. But actually putting in writing what I’ve accomplished in my life and trying to pull someone into my world is a challenge to me. Especially if I’m going to keep it under 300 words. I’m a bit of a Chatty Cathy when I’m at the keyboard, if you haven’t noticed yet. I’m not sure if it’s humility or shyness or if I’m just no good at summarizing who I am. This is my current struggle.

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I can get to talking sometimes. Okay, a lot of the time. But there’s so much to say!!

On the back of the books, or on the inner sleeve if it’s hardback, is generally a quick bio of the author. And some people are really witty and silly while others are serious with credentials up the wazoo. My credentials aren’t necessarily in creative writing or fiction writing or journalism. But I can write. And my life is fairly standard, 2 dogs, 2 kids, a husband and a house. Where do you add the personality?  Where’s the character? What will draw you to connect to me as an author and make you want to ready MY book?

I found a great blog post today with some instruction on exactly how to do that. And I’m going to revisit my own bio and play around with it. I like it but it’s missing a little something. I need to add some originality, some Jenn to it. Because it is me. It came from me. I want it to invite you to get to know me and come hang out with me for a while because we have a fantastic story to discuss.

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Day of Rest – Not Really

It’s another beautiful day in the world!  Luckily, I don’t have to drive to the office for a couple of hours but that also means it’s the weekend and I have a whole new list of things to do. Is there ever really a day off? Do you ever go into the weekend filled with energy and  excited to embrace the days doing incredibly productive activities and chores? Yeah, I can’t say that I do. When I use so much energy all week long I’m just wiped out by Friday night. Depleted. Gone. Nada. So I need to recharge.

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Such a beautiful Spring day!! Finally!!

I don’t have any specific way to recharge. I try to sleep in but sometimes I have to work early Saturday mornings. I have dogs who need to go out and be fed. I have a 4 year old who wakes up happy and excited for the day at seven no matter what day it is. And I have deadlines, typically Sunday. So, yeah, sleeping in doesn’t do it for me.

How do you recharge? Do you have a spa day? Date night? Girl/Guy time? From time to time I grab a book and carve an ounce of serenity out of my day. Otherwise, I go out to the backyard and work in my garden. Since Spring is just showing its true face, I’ve got a few sprouts popping up from seeds I’ve been waiting on, and I love it. Seeing nature at work is so peaceful to me. I also really love a freshly mowed lawn, so I’m especially happy if the hubby has gone out and done the dirty work that weekend. I also take the kid and the dogs on walks through our neighborhood. They all love it and my arms get an extra workout because they aren’t well trained and like to pull and walk all over each other. Double win.

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Not my dog, but check out that smile!!

Most importantly, I try not to totally deplete my energy. I try to save some because I don’t really have the kind of time that lets me just relax. That’s a special occasion. And rare. Really rare. So I make sure the kid goes to bed on time and the dogs are fed and relaxing on schedule. Keeping the world around me on a normal routine actually makes life easier for me and makes my nightly writing a relaxing experience and nothing like work.

Tell me in the comments how you refill after your energy is completely depleted. What do you do for you? If anything… Sports? Nail time? Sleep? I’m curious.

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Awakening Outside and In

Today’s daily post talks about awakening.  They talk about their favorite seasons, Fall in South Carolina and Spring in the colder northern states. And I absolutely love that. I love the Fall for many of the same reasons as she listed – it’s cooler here in the South and you can enjoy the outdoors, the garden and the coming holidays. I also really love the Spring the the budding flowers and vegetables poking out of the ground. The feeling of renewal and a new lease on life are so strong as the weather gets warmer and you get that lovely breeze through your open windows. Yep, I love the outdoors.

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Mine are just starting to get to this point. Not ready for the big garden but they’re growing!

But her post also struck me as I’m going through a different kind of awakening. I’m allowing myself to dream. And I’m working toward that dream. And I’m realizing that I can 100% achieve that dream. Isn’t that a funny thing? In the past, I wouldn’t have told myself that I could write copy for an amazing running company or that I could write research papers for mental health providers. Why not? Why couldn’t I? Because I didn’t give myself the room to do it.

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Give it a try! You might surprise yourself.

For whatever reason, I’m allowing myself the opportunity to do this at this point in my life. I love to write. I love to read. I love to research. Sounds like a good fit, huh? And it is. I’m going to roll with it. I’m going to keep sending in my papers and signing clients. I’m going to see how far this amazing awakening takes me. Because I’m worth it. I deserve to enjoy how I spend my time.

What awakenings strike your imagination? Are you in the middle of one right now? Have you gone through something similar?  Are you “woke”?  That last one’s a joke. But you should be. If you want to be. Talk to me. Let me know your thoughts in the comments. Have a beautiful day!